Merry Christmas

Wish you Merry Christmas ^-^

'Thanks' for ur Hacks candy as a christmas gift.

今天差一点就晕倒了
可能真的是太累了
该睡了， 晚安 ^-^

今天又一位老师说我瘦了。
好开心。。。 ^-^

这两个月我都会很忙，一起加油吧。。。

7 reasons men are afraid to commit

Commitment issues that guys have that set women back in the dating game

While it is fair to say that there are some women who are afraid of commitment, it seems that the phrase “he had commitment issues” is heard a lot more. Therefore we take a look at some of the reasons or excuses why men utter these words on a far too frequent basis.

1. Bad experience

When a relationship ends, people naturally get hurt, and although guys come across all macho most of the time, they do of course have a softer side to them, and get hurt too. It may not stop them from meeting other girls and dating, but the experience can leave them unwilling to want to commit, at least in the near future.

2. Oh the pressure

A lot of women put pressure on guys to commit to a relationship. They want to define what is ‘going on’ and aren’t keen on the blurred line between dating and a relationship. The pressure can make some guys concede, while others will buckle and come up with the excuse that they aren’t ready for a relationship.

3. Peter Pan syndrome

Many guys can’t bare the fact that they may have to grow up at some point and committing to a relationship means that they have to be mature and responsible. They have to give up their time and be selfless. By remaining single they can delay all this.

4. It scares the.... out of him

It’s a common fear of many men that a women will try to change them. Not only that, but they will be prevented from doing the things that they enjoy doing, like hanging out with their friends or watching the game. The thought of running ideas through a woman first to see if it’s ok before he can proceed will deter him. He doesn’t want to be trapped. In the words of William Wallace “they’ll never take our FREEDOM.”

5. A bit on the side

Either, you are the bit on the side and he is with you for the sex, or, he has someone else on the side and therefore doesn’t want to commit to either. It could be that he doesn’t know what or who he wants and therefore strings the two along. It’s easier for him than to make a decision, his friends give him the ‘player’ status, and commitment is futile.

6. It won’t work out

Divorce is on the rise and here in Malaysia it’s rising at an alarming rate. A guy may have the attitude of “what’s the point if it’s unlikely to work anyway?”. There is a lot if risk involved with commitment as you give yourself to the other person and the relationship, and therefore put a lot of energy into it. Many don’t want to risk that unless they are sure that it will work out.

7. Unable to provide

This may be the most valid of reasons, and it doesn’t just have to be in the financial sense. All of the above mean that they can't give you the emotional support that a relationship should provide, and hence can’t commit. Plus, no man wants his ego shattered when they come to the realisation that they can’t support or provide for their family.

根据我的分析,你是属于第一的答案: not ready yet. 对吗?

昨天晚上和朋友一起庆祝Heri的生日。
很开心朋友说我有瘦了 ^-^

那一晚发给你的短讯差一点就发给Agustian。
如果按得再快一点的话，后果不看思想。。。。

好的开始

虽然很累，但是很开心... ^-^
终于可以开始了。希望来得及
想你哦。。。

终于能实现和你一起吃甜品的念头 ^-^
很开心...
知道你很累,但是还愿意陪我
谢谢你
其实我也是超累的
工作很多还加上第一天大姨妈
回到家还要打扫和洗衣服
很累但又不能早睡
想你应该睡得很熟了吧..
晚安^-^

有一种突然想见你的感觉
想如果能见到你, 抱着你, 把所有的思念都释放下来, 该多好
那你呢?

已经第十天没见面了
会偶尔想我吗?

希望我许的生日愿望会实现

今天的心情特别好
应为那最难得，最害怕的，最恐怖的科目考试过了
剩下两个科目在下个礼拜考，会继续加油的 ^-^

好累啊....
昨天晚上都没睡好
真不因该在旁碗喝奶茶

多么希望来的人是你

祝我生日快乐

I am delighted that Agus's attachment company is quite near to mine.

It is only 2 building away. Heheh... can meet him for lunch or after work.

But he will start only on October, as for me, start on 20 September.

Thanks for being so kind and sweet to me on the last day of my work ^-^

Wish I can meet u soon ^-^

After this week, I gotta stop working for at least 3 weeks.

Hm... will miss u to the core.

I still have no idea whether can work during week days once my internship starts.

Need to work more to earn more ^-^

Bon voyage for ur journey back this evening ^-^

你到底是真的不在意，还是假装，还是这就是你的个性?
真的搞不懂?????
一气之下，会告诉自己不要理你了!
但问题是，我怎么能做得到啊......

Just finished watching Avatar.

Did u watch this before?

If I had known that it was such a great movie, I would have gone to cinema for it.

Really really amazing.....

Cutie... ^-^

I've found that you are getting cuter, cuter and cuter.
Hehehe... please bear with me as I would like to squeeze you whenever I see you.
And thanks for letting me sqeezing your tummy although I don't know how painful it is.
Hihihihi..

This coming Thursday, no matter what, we must go to watch "Love in Disguise"
Have been longing for this movie and to watch with you ^-^

怎么搞到我自己那么不开心？
真失望

感觉你一点都不在乎我
怎么办呢？
不回信息是你的习惯喔
真不喜欢这个坏习惯

你睡觉的样子真的很可爱
有点后悔没把你的样子拍下来
我想应该还会有这个机会吧.

问你对我所唱的歌有什么印象
你怎么没回答呀?

好久没在这里写东西啦
都怪自己太忙啦
但终算忙完Project了
刚回到家真想冲完凉, 就跑去睡
但是, 都不可能啊.. 得做完Powerpoint slides

明天将会是我们第一次一起去JB
你是否和我一样很期待, 很兴奋呢?

明天将会是我们第几天没见面, 你知道吗?

想你....
想和你...

甜美的梦
希望能够永远把它记在心里
偶尔把它拿出来回忆一下
会让自己觉得开心, 幸福^-^

已悄悄的把巧克力饼干放进你的包包里^-^
你注意到了吗?
虽然不是自己做的,但希望你也喜欢^-^
吃在嘴里,甜在心里最重要

你现在的感觉, 想法是如何呢?
真的很想知道

最近都很忙着做Project, 不能去打工了, 也见不到你了
一起加油喔.... ^-^

那天那包米粉被藏在那种地方,你也会找得到
真厉害 也让我看到原来你是那么有耐心的 ^-^
是我的话, 一定大发脾气 哈哈...

今天和同学在学校吃晚餐
但是,为什么吃了会有一种罪恶感呢?
感觉好像不应该吃下那碗面
应为都不觉得饿还陪同学吃

又买了两罐香蕉口味的牛奶^-^ 好喝

今天拿到两张考卷的成绩
一个A一个B
那个B的让我很不开心
朋友都考得比我好
那Participation mark让我很不甘愿
明天要去找老师
向他求情说那时是应为妈妈进医院才没上学的
而且那功课我都有做 还是我熬夜做的
Hiks hiks.... 很不公平 :(

这一次我在学校又拿到了 Top 10%
真的很难得
真的很高兴 ^-^

今天有够忙的
很累人
好久没有在一天之内做了十二个小时

早上来了两个人来修理Ice Machine
其中一位竟然走出外面向我要电话号码
哇哈哈。。。 想到他那紧张的表情
看起来他很有心想和我交朋友

Spiderman spotted

Haha.... I have spotted spiderman
Did u realised it?


I have selected those pictures that I wanna develop
After editted all, I am so contented with it
It tells me how powerful are Auto Correct and contrast button

今天又下雨了
你应该到达Kluang了吧
祝你这两天可以玩得愉快 ^-^

今天已到学校, 看到你所有的评论,真的好开心哦
让我开心了一阵天
真的很谢谢你 ^-^

对了, 昨晚Sky有打电话给我
我没接, 到家我才打回给他
他说有打给你, 但是你没接
为什么没接啊?

昨天真的想不到你竟然会说出在等我
哈哈... 有一点吓到看到你还在

明天你几点回JB啊?

Just a half rack of pork ribs, make me feel so full

Can't imagine what it would be if I like those customer, having a bowl of soup, vegetables, fries and few glasses of coke

Gotta be bloated, hahaha.....

Last two nights, the incident that I fear of, happened again

I told auntie this morning and she said it could be a call from God, God is testing me

Do u think so? But to be honest, when it happened, I did what auntie taught me, by praying "Yesus save me, Maria save me" and then the incident was not last long

Hm... Whatever it is, still better than taking it as a cast spelled on me

有时在想我又犯了一个错
不应该让你看这个部落格
比较希望看到一直都满面笑容的你
对不起, 又在你的心加上了痛

今早忽然间很想听这首"都是你"
不知道为什么听了会替你难过, 但还是想听
是种同情还是什么, 自己都不知道

今早下的雨可真大
你因该很好睡吧?
我却在巴士上冷到快要被冻结了

哇..... Pepper sauce 真的是太好吃了, 真的够辣
Prime Rib Eye 超赞, 赞不绝口, 不陪酱也都很好吃
累了, 吃饱了, 想去睡了
明天起来一定长出肥肉啦....
晚安.... ;)

误以为KTV取消了
所以答应David帮忙做工
还不错, 拿到四块钱小费
使今天的开销都赚回来了

真是不好意思
今天迟到二十分钟
呆在学校做了Project才赶去的
幸好Manager不是Peter,
不然就很难讲啦....

要去做工了啦....
等一会儿见咯.....
你因该有做吧?

大城小爱

乌黑的发尾盘成一个圈
缠绕所有对你的眷恋
隔着半透明门帘
嘴里说的语言完全没有欺骗

屋顶灰色瓦片安静的画面
灯火是你美丽那张脸
终于找到所有流浪的终点
你的微笑结束了疲倦

千万不要说天长地久
免的你觉的我不切实际
想多么简单就多么简单
是妈妈告诉我的哲理

脑袋都是你心里都是你
小小的爱在大城里好甜蜜
念的都是你全部都是你
小小的爱在大城里只为你倾心

乌黑的发尾盘成一个圈
缠绕所有对你的眷恋
终于找到所有流浪的终点
你的微笑结束了疲倦

千万不要说天长地久
免的你觉的我不切实际
想多么简单就多么简单
让我大声的对你说
I’m thinking of you

脑袋都是你心里都是你
小小的爱在大城里好甜蜜
念的都是你全部都是你
小小的爱在大城里只为你倾心

那回城的票根你留做纪念
不必害怕面对离别
剪掉一丝头发让我放在胸前
走到那里都有你陪 相随

脑袋都是你心里都是你
小小的爱在大城里好甜蜜
念的都是你全部都是你
小小的爱在大城里只为你倾心

脑袋都是你心里都是你
小小的爱在大城里好甜蜜
OH~~念的都是你全部都是你
小小的爱在大城里只为你倾心

拉拉拉拉拉~~~~~拉拉拉拉拉

乌黑的发尾盘成一个圈
缠绕所有对你的眷恋
那一种寸步不离的感觉
我知道就叫做 永远

今天一整天都觉得好困
还在图书馆里睡了不懂多久了呢
明天应该也会是一样的吧
晚上还得陪同学去唱KBox
好累啊.....

晚餐吃得好饱噢...
为了替同学庆祝生日, 去了Pastamania
吃完一盘意大利面已经很饱了
还得吃下一片Hawaiian Pizza
真不合我口味
但是那生日Boy喜欢, 那就让他点吧 :)
他开心就好

怎么今天的 chicken chop with redwine mushroom sauce 没比我拜五第一次吃的好吃呀?

昨天回家的路上, 坐在旁边的老叔叔竟然想假睡偷吃我豆腐
哼... 我才没那么笨呢
他这招, 我又不是没见识过

哎呀... 刚发现脸上长了一颗好大的豆豆
不行啦... 我不要豆豆... :(

我先睡了
不要每天都那么晚睡
不像我, 想早睡都没得睡
照顾好身体噢....
晚安.....

想你, 但又不能发简讯给你
想和你聊天, 但又不能打电话给你
继续麻木自己吧!!!

已经十一点了
你应该放工了吧

Heri真可爱
他也会想到要我约你一起去JB玩
Hihihihi......
但是都不太可能啊
我太忙了
放假又不像放假
多么希望可以一起出去玩啊.....

觉得昨天看到你的时候, 对你的感觉已经没那么强了
是我成功了吗?
但是不否认说看到你比没看到你还来的高兴

昨天我的Customer, Mr Koh 的老婆说我的头发很美
哇..... 好高兴噢.....

今天你有没有想我啊?

好可爱的礼物包纸噢

今天在学校买了好可爱的礼物包纸噢
想给你瞧一下, 但发现原来你不在
是一张好多小熊厨师带着小厨帽, 手里拿着好多种生日蛋糕
我的好朋友一定很喜欢
今天都没吃晚餐, 现在肚子好饿哦....
真的很累了, 快快把礼物包好, 然后去睡了
就不要想Project了啦...
享受帮他们捡球吧 ;)

祝愿你踢球愉快....

昨天吃的 Cucumber Sauce 超咸的
总来没吃过那么咸的
是谁做的阿??

我们一起上巴士都被Uncle Tan和Weilee看到了
还被误以为我和你一起去IT Fair
他们都不相信我没去

UncleTan 说他很伤心我们去拍拖, 还在我面前假哭呢
哈哈... 真可爱!!

Alan 说没鱼虾也好, 不是大树, 小树也好. 总比没有好
哈哈...

Weilee 说其实不嫌弃你, 你是不错的. 只是有一点多话
哈哈...

才不要被我的耳朵骗了呢
未来是自己的
所以要自己决定

我哭了

昨天, 九日六月, 我竟然第一次为男生掉眼泪
到现在还不敢相信
原来我没想像中坚强

心好乱
真的有努力的不去想你
但是越不去想, 越会想到你
真的很辛苦

告诉自己, 不听By2的歌, 就不会想到你
但是很难做得到

为什么一切都那么的巧合?
决定不听By2的歌, 但一打开很久没听的88.3, 听到下一首, 竟然是"爱上你"
回到家, 朋友又在播她们的歌

到现在依然有很多很多事想第一个告诉你
但是我知道我必须控制我自己
应为知道不停止的话, 会无法自拔

真的有觉得, 我给你太多压力了
好像在逼你

刚刚看到你寄来的短讯的时候, 感觉是无法形容的
为什么在我想不再寄短讯给你的时刻, 你的短讯却来了

今天是值得记下来的
我们第一次一起坐巴士
真的很巧, 我们两刚好有事, 还可以搭同辆巴士 ^-^